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Steamy affairs: the best movies and tv shows about swingers

Delve into the intriguing world of open relationships with our curated list of movies and TV shows about swingers. These stories explore the complexities, desires, and sometimes humorous situations that arise when couples venture outside the traditional norms of monogamy.

The Last Seduction
Nymphomaniac: Vol. I
Nymphomaniac: Vol. II

From darkly comic explorations to intense dramas, cinema has long been fascinated by the concept of swinging. This lifestyle, characterized by consensual non-monogamy, offers a provocative lens through which to examine themes of intimacy, trust, and the ever-evolving nature of relationships. Some films approach the subject with a lighthearted touch, using it as a backdrop for comedic scenarios and awkward encounters. Others delve into the deeper psychological motivations and emotional consequences of open relationships.

Take, for instance, Stanley Kubrick's "Eyes Wide Shut," a psychological drama that slowly plunges into a surreal exploration of marital dissatisfaction and sexual curiosity. Or, on a lighter note, "Swingers" that although it's not explicitly about 'swinging', it captures the essence of a particular lifestyle and mindset around relationships, which in turn explores how the desire for connection and experimentation can lead people down unexpected paths. Whether you're simply curious about the lifestyle or looking for a thought-provoking exploration of modern relationships, these films and TV shows offer a diverse range of perspectives on the world of swinging.

9. The Other Woman (2014)

The Other Woman is a comedy about three women who team up to get revenge on the man who has been cheating on them. Starring Cameron Diaz, Leslie Mann, and Kate Upton, the film relies on slapstick humor and predictable plotlines. While it's not a masterpiece, it offers some laughs and a lighthearted take on infidelity. The chemistry between the leading ladies is decent, but don't expect any groundbreaking insights into relationships or revenge. This film is mostly for when you are in the mood for something silly and undemanding.

The Other Woman

8. Choke (2008)

Based on the novel by Chuck Palahniuk, Choke is a dark comedy that follows a sex addict who scams people by pretending to choke in restaurants. Sam Rockwell delivers a compelling performance as the protagonist, navigating themes of addiction, identity, and the search for connection. The film's absurd humor and unconventional storytelling make it a cult favorite. It's weird and irreverent, so if you are familiar with Palahniuk's writing, you know what to expect. Otherwise, prepare for a bizarre and somewhat disturbing ride.

Choke

7. Killing Me Softly (2002)

Killing Me Softly is a thriller centered on a woman who abandons her life to pursue a passionate affair with a mysterious and alluring man. As their relationship intensifies, she uncovers dark secrets about his past that threaten to consume her. Directed by Chen Kaige, the film blends eroticism with suspense, creating an atmosphere of paranoia and danger. While it received mixed reviews, Killing Me Softly is notable for its sensual atmosphere and exploration of obsession. It's a decent thriller that relies more on its steamy scenes than its plot, but it might still be appealing if you're in the mood for some provocative entertainment.

Killing Me Softly

6. Don Jon (2013)

Joseph Gordon-Levitt writes, directs, and stars in Don Jon, a dramedy about a young man addicted to pornography who tries to form meaningful relationships. The film explores themes of intimacy, communication, and the impact of media on our perceptions of sex and love. Scarlett Johansson and Julianne Moore also star, adding depth to the story's exploration of modern relationships. While it may not be the most subtle film on the subject, Don Jon is definitely worth a watch if you are interested in a fresh take on sex and relationships in the digital age. It's a bold and often funny exploration of contemporary issues.

Don Jon

5. Nymphomaniac: Vol. II (2013)

Nymphomaniac: Vol. II continues the journey into Joe's life, delving deeper into the darker aspects of her addiction and the consequences of her choices. As Joe continues to narrate her story, the film explores themes of power, pain, and the search for meaning. The graphic content is balanced with philosophical discussions, making it a challenging but thought-provoking experience. This second part dives into the emotional consequences of Joe's actions, making it a more introspective and disturbing experience. Be warned, it is not for everyone, but it is an interesting look into a complex character.

Nymphomaniac: Vol. II

4. Nymphomaniac: Vol. I (2013)

Lars von Trier's Nymphomaniac: Vol. I is the first half of a controversial and explicit exploration of one woman's sexual life. Charlotte Gainsbourg stars as Joe, who recounts her experiences to a stranger who finds her beaten in an alley. The film is divided into chapters, each exploring different aspects of Joe's sexual awakening and desires. Though provocative, it delves into themes of addiction, identity, and the complexities of female sexuality. While it's not for the faint of heart, the film is a bold and uncompromising look at a character driven by her impulses.

Nymphomaniac: Vol. I

3. The Last Seduction (1994)

A neo-noir thriller with a femme fatale at its core, The Last Seduction stars Linda Fiorentino as a manipulative woman who convinces her lover to rob her husband, then runs off with the money. Her character is cold, calculating, and utterly captivating, driving the film's suspenseful plot with ruthless determination. The film's dark and gritty atmosphere enhances the sense of danger, creating a classic noir feel. Fiorentino's performance is the real draw here. She embodies the archetype of the femme fatale with such chilling precision that she turns this movie into an absolute must-see for fans of the genre.

The Last Seduction

2. Eyes Wide Shut (1999)

Stanley Kubrick's final film, Eyes Wide Shut, is a psychological drama that explores themes of sexual obsession, jealousy, and the hidden underbelly of marital relationships. Tom Cruise and Nicole Kidman, then married in real life, star as a wealthy doctor and his wife whose relationship is tested after the wife's admission of sexual fantasies. The film's dreamlike atmosphere and unsettling imagery create a sense of unease, inviting the audience to question the nature of desire and reality. Keep an eye out for the extended party scene; it is pure Kubrick genius. It's a slow burn that stays with you long after the credits roll, prompting discussions about fidelity and the complexities of human connection.

Eyes Wide Shut

1. Swingers (1996)

A quintessential '90s comedy, Swingers perfectly captures the anxieties and aspirations of single guys navigating the dating scene in Los Angeles. Written by Jon Favreau and starring himself alongside Vince Vaughn, the movie's charm lies in its witty dialogue and relatable characters. Favreau's Trent is the ultimate wingman, dispensing questionable advice with unwavering confidence. The film's low-budget indie feel contributes to its authenticity, making it a timeless and hilarious exploration of male friendship and the search for love. Did you know that many of the scenes were improvised? This is why the dialogues feel so natural and funny, full of quotable lines that still resonate today.

Swingers

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