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Best movies about falling in love

Watching characters discover and navigate the thrilling journey of falling in love is a timeless cinematic pleasure. These films beautifully capture the magic and complexities of those initial sparks and connections.

The Notebook
About Time
(500) Days of Summer

There's a unique magic in watching a love story unfold on screen, especially in those early, exhilarating stages of falling in love. Cinema has long explored this universal human experience, giving us countless memorable moments that resonate deeply with audiences.

What makes these films so captivating? Perhaps it's the relatability of awkward first dates, the electricity of unexpected connections, or the hopefulness inherent in the possibility of finding 'the one'. Directors and screenwriters employ various techniques, from witty dialogue and charming meet-cutes to breathtaking cinematography and poignant musical scores, to draw us into the characters' emotional worlds.

Some films focus on the spontaneous combustion of instant attraction, while others explore the slow burn of friendship evolving into something deeper. The setting often plays a crucial role, whether it's the romantic streets of a European city, the familiar halls of a high school, or even the challenging landscape of a hospital room.

Watching these stories reminds us of the thrill, vulnerability, and sheer joy that comes with opening your heart to another person. They offer a comforting escape, a reminder of our own romantic experiences, or simply a beautiful fantasy to get lost in.

14. The Fault in Our Stars (2014)

The Fault in Our Stars is a poignant and earnest romance that resonated deeply with audiences. It tells the story of Hazel Grace Lancaster (Shailene Woodley), a teenager with cancer, who meets and falls for Augustus Waters (Ansel Elgort) at a support group. Their relationship is marked by wit, shared experiences, and the harsh reality of their illnesses, but also by the pure joy of connection and first love. The film depicts the intense, accelerated experience of falling in love when faced with difficult circumstances. Based on John Green's hugely popular novel, the film captured the specific voice and emotional depth of the book. Shailene Woodley and Ansel Elgort had a natural chemistry that made their characters' bond feel incredibly real and touching, highlighting how love can bring light and meaning even in the darkest of times.

The Fault in Our Stars

13. Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind (2004)

Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind is a fascinating, non-linear exploration of relationships, heartbreak, and the very nature of love and memory. Joel Barish (Jim Carrey) discovers his ex-girlfriend Clementine Kruczynski (Kate Winslet) has had her memories of him erased. In response, he decides to undergo the same procedure. The film takes place largely inside Joel's mind as he relives their relationship in reverse, particularly focusing on the moments of falling in love and the happiness that makes the pain of breaking up so difficult. Directed by Michel Gondry and written by Charlie Kaufman, the film is known for its surreal visuals and complex narrative structure. Jim Carrey and Kate Winslet deliver powerful performances, showing the messy, beautiful, and sometimes painful reality of connection. It's a film that makes you ponder what love truly means and whether it's worth the inevitable pain.

Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind

12. The Shape of Water (2017)

The Shape of Water is a visually stunning and deeply moving fantasy romance that tells a truly unique story of falling in love. Elisa Esposito (Sally Hawkins), a mute cleaning woman working in a secret government laboratory in the 1960s, forms an extraordinary bond with a captured amphibious creature. Their connection defies conventional boundaries and blossoms into a profound love. The film beautifully portrays the discovery of love and intimacy outside of societal norms and expectations. Director Guillermo del Toro drew inspiration from classic monster movies and fairy tales, aiming to tell a story where the 'monster' is the romantic lead. It won the Academy Award for Best Picture, a testament to its ability to tell a compelling and heartfelt story about finding connection in the most unlikely of circumstances.

The Shape of Water

11. The Proposal (2009)

The Proposal takes a classic rom-com setup – a fake relationship for convenience – and turns it into a genuinely sweet story about two people unexpectedly falling in love. Margaret Tate (Sandra Bullock), a demanding book editor facing deportation to Canada, forces her assistant Andrew Paxton (Ryan Reynolds) to marry her. As they spend time together in Alaska to convince his family (and immigration) that their relationship is real, the lines between the fake and the genuine begin to blur, leading to real feelings. The film benefits immensely from the comedic timing and chemistry between Bullock and Reynolds. It's a fun, charming watch that proves sometimes the most authentic connections start in the most unconventional ways, showing the humorous and heartfelt journey of two people realizing they're meant to be together.

The Proposal

10. The Princess Bride (1987)

The Princess Bride is a fairy tale adventure that has charmed audiences for generations, and at its core is a beautiful love story. It follows the farm boy Westley (Cary Elwes) and the maiden Buttercup (Robin Wright) whose love is tested by pirates, princes, and various fantastical obstacles. The film perfectly captures the innocent beginnings of love and its enduring power against all odds. Directed by Rob Reiner and based on William Goldman's novel (Goldman also wrote the screenplay), the film is celebrated for its perfect blend of comedy, adventure, and romance. Despite being a modest box office success upon release, it gained massive popularity through home video and television, becoming a beloved cult classic quoted endlessly by fans. It's an utterly delightful watch that reminds you of the magic of finding your true love.

The Princess Bride

9. 10 Things I Hate About You (1999)

A quintessential 90s teen rom-com, 10 Things I Hate About You is a loose adaptation of Shakespeare's The Taming of the Shrew. It centers on Cameron (Joseph Gordon-Levitt), the new kid who wants to date Bianca (Larisa Oleynik), but can only do so if her older, rebellious sister Kat (Julia Stiles) starts dating too. Enter Patrick Verona (Heath Ledger), paid to woo the seemingly un-wooable Kat. The film is fantastic at portraying the slow burn of falling for someone you initially dislike or are wary of, layered with witty dialogue and iconic scenes (Heath Ledger's stadium serenade, anyone?). It launched the careers of many of its young stars and remains a beloved classic for its charm, humor, and genuine portrayal of teenage romance and rebellion.

10 Things I Hate About You

8. Silver Linings Playbook (2012)

Silver Linings Playbook is a wonderfully unconventional romantic comedy that follows Pat Solitano (Bradley Cooper), a man with bipolar disorder trying to get his life back together after a stay in a psychiatric hospital. He meets Tiffany Maxwell (Jennifer Lawrence), a young widow with her own struggles. Their relationship begins tempestuously but evolves as they connect over their shared difficulties and decide to train for a dance competition. This film shows falling in love not as a sudden event, but a gradual process of finding acceptance and understanding with another person. Jennifer Lawrence won the Best Actress Oscar for her role here, making her the second youngest winner in that category at the time. It's a story about finding love and hope in unexpected places, proving that connection can blossom even amidst chaos.

Silver Linings Playbook

7. Love, Simon (2018)

Love, Simon is a groundbreaking and heartwarming coming-of-age story centered on Simon Spier (Nick Robinson), a closeted high school student who begins anonymously emailing another closeted classmate known only as "Blue." As their email correspondence deepens, Simon finds himself falling in love with the person behind the words, leading him on a journey of self-discovery and figuring out who Blue is. It's a sweet, earnest, and relatable portrayal of first love in the digital age, specifically from an LGBTQ+ perspective, which was a rarity for a mainstream studio film upon its release. The film is based on the novel Simon vs. the Homo Sapiens Agenda by Becky Albertalli. It beautifully captures the excitement, anxiety, and profound impact of falling for someone for the first time.

Love, Simon

6. Crazy, Stupid, Love. (2011)

Crazy, Stupid, Love. is a smart, funny ensemble comedy that juggles multiple storylines about relationships and, yes, falling in love! At its heart is Cal (Steve Carell), a man going through a divorce who gets dating advice from smooth operator Jacob (Ryan Gosling). Meanwhile, Jacob finds himself falling for Hannah (Emma Stone), and Cal's son is experiencing his first crush. The film cleverly weaves these narratives together, showing different facets of falling in love – from the initial spark to unexpected connections. The chemistry between the cast, particularly Gosling and Stone (their first pairing before La La Land), is undeniable and a major highlight. It's a film that understands that love can be messy, unpredictable, and utterly wonderful, often when you least expect it.

Crazy, Stupid, Love.

5. (500) Days of Summer (2009)

(500) Days of Summer offers a refreshingly non-linear and realistic look at the arc of a relationship, including the beautiful, confusing, and sometimes painful process of falling in love. The story is told from the perspective of Tom (Joseph Gordon-Levitt), who falls head over heels for Summer (Zooey Deschanel), a woman who doesn't believe in true love. It's a clever deconstruction of romantic comedy tropes, showing the 'falling' part not as a destiny, but as an experience shaped by individual perspectives and expectations. The film uses inventive visual gags and narrative devices (like the split-screen 'Expectations vs. Reality' sequence) to illustrate Tom's emotional state. Despite its realistic take, the initial flutterings of connection and infatuation are vividly portrayed, making it a great watch for understanding the complexities of modern romance.

(500) Days of Summer

4. About Time (2013)

About Time is a truly charming and unique take on finding love. Tim Lake (Domhnall Gleeson) discovers on his 21st birthday that the men in his family can travel through time. He decides to use this ability not for grand historical events, but to find a girlfriend and eventually, the love of his life, Mary (Rachel McAdams). The film tenderly explores the often-awkward and sometimes-perfect moments of meeting someone and falling in love, highlighting the importance of cherishing ordinary moments. Interestingly, Richard Curtis, the king of British rom-coms (Love Actually, Notting Hill), wrote and directed this film, stating it would likely be his last film as a director. Rachel McAdams is coincidentally in this film too, making her appear in two major time-travel romances (The Time Traveler's Wife being the other)! It's a warm, witty, and moving story about love, family, and living life fully.

About Time

3. The Notebook (2004)

Ah, The Notebook. This is the ultimate tear-jerker romance that defines epic love for many! Based on Nicholas Sparks' novel, it tells the story of Noah (Ryan Gosling) and Allie (Rachel McAdams), two young people from different worlds who fall deeply in love one summer in the 1940s. Their passionate, tumultuous relationship is recounted years later, showing the enduring power of a love that starts with an undeniable spark. The casting of Ryan Gosling and Rachel McAdams was initially surprising to some, but their on-screen chemistry was so intense (fueled, perhaps, by their real-life, off-screen romance that developed after filming) that they became an iconic screen couple. Director Nick Cassavetes deliberately cast actors who weren't necessarily the 'obvious' choices to bring a freshness to the roles. It's a sweeping, emotional journey about first love and its lasting impact.

The Notebook

2. La La Land (2016)

La La Land is a modern musical masterpiece that sweeps you off your feet and right into the heady feeling of new love! It tells the story of Mia (Emma Stone), an aspiring actress, and Sebastian (Ryan Gosling), a dedicated jazz musician, who meet and fall for each other in Los Angeles while pursuing their dreams. The film beautifully captures the excitement and challenges of navigating a relationship while chasing personal aspirations. Director Damien Chazelle aimed to recreate the feel of classic Hollywood musicals but grounded in realistic emotion. Fun fact: Emma Stone and Ryan Gosling's incredible chemistry here is no accident; this was their third film together after Crazy, Stupid, Love. and Gangster Squad. The dazzling dance numbers and the bittersweet narrative perfectly encapsulate the soaring highs and poignant realities of falling in love when you're young and ambitious.

La La Land

1. Before Sunrise (1995)

Oh, Before Sunrise! This film is pure magic for anyone who wants to see the raw, unfiltered beginning of connection. It follows Jesse (Ethan Hawke) and Céline (Julie Delpy), two strangers who meet on a train in Europe and decide to spontaneously spend one evening together in Vienna. The entire film is essentially them walking, talking, and discovering everything about each other, leading to an incredibly genuine and heartfelt portrayal of two people falling for one another in real-time. Did you know that Richard Linklater developed the story with his co-writers Kim Krizan, drawing inspiration from a real-life encounter he had with a woman in a toy shop in Philadelphia back in 1989? The dialogue feels so natural because much of it was refined through extensive improvisation and discussions between Linklater, Hawke, and Delpy, making their chemistry utterly captivating. It's a beautiful study of human connection and the spark of romance.

Before Sunrise

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